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Hi all, I have been with a MM for almost 4 years now. We were both married at the time. I am divorcing my husband and have been for the past 2 1/2 years. MM said he was going to leave his wife and never has. I told him yesterday that I was ending it as I was fed up of being a secret. I was hoping he would leave her but he has said ‘ok’. I am heartbroken as I thought we would be together. His wife is 25 years older than him and they haven’t had sex in 10 plus years.
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We are in our 40’s. He has no children as his wife was too old when they married to have anymore.
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Welcome to the forum, ilovehimonmyown.
I'm sorry your EMR did not take the path you had hoped. Did your MM give you a reason why he has decided not to leave his marriage after telling you he would? Did you end your marriage to be with your MM, or would have left your BH regardless of your MM?
It is both a blessing and a curse to feel everything so deeply.
